It is not about what you decide on, but rather how you go about the wedding planning process! If...family is involved in your big day then you will need to steer clear of their opinions and listen for advice. Family will have good intentions but they will cloud you mind as you make the large and small decisions for your wedding. Some of the most helpful tools I found useful for wedding planning involve numerous of check list and to-do list.
With all the tools available to help you determine what you want I thought I create a decision assessment for Brides and Grooms.
Dr. Dr. Klapow on Oprah.com has offered a tools and advice for couple making decisions! I found this advice very informative and will be implementing his five "S.M.A.R.T" steps to collective decision-making:
1. SET
2. MONITOR
3. ARRANGE
4. RECRUIT
5. TREAT
When considering the next bazillion options for your wedding you both should make a personal assessment asking these questions:
1. Is it something you both will cherish and remember?
2. Is it economically feasible?
3. Does it fit within the budget?
4. Have you thought the particular option more than three times and have at least given it a week of time to think it over.
5. Do the pros out weigh the cons? (What are the pros and cons)
6. Does it sociology and spiritual represent you both?
7. Is it practicable?
8. What are the draw backs ( cons )?
9. What are the better alternatives?
10. If this decision does not fall through what is the back up plan?
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